A guy…who shall remain nameless….once gave me a cowboy doll complete with a toothpick sticking out of it’s mouth for Christmas. When I opened this gift I was dumbfounded. I couldn’t understand the gift at all. What did it mean? What was it? Was it a joke? A few months after, I found out that it was 1. Wrapped by the guys mother, 2. Won in an arcade. This is a true story but I am withholding information in order to protect the dignity of this man. =)
Why are men so clueless when it comes to women? A single rose with a lovely letter would have been worth 10x more than that gift. Yet somehow, men don’t get this. Most men I know (Ruy of the present excluded) need a lot of help and need tips for attracting women . They are that clueless!!
Another example I have of how clueless men are? A suitor once gave me a poem entitled “Warfreak”…tell me, is there anything romantic about that? I am telling you that right there and then I wanted to give him a get girl book and force him to read it from cover to cover.
These were of course in the past when men don’t have a lot of places to look for for help. Luckily right now there are websites which give help to men for everything from body language to tips on how to pick up a beautiful woman.
I’m feeling quite lucky because Ruy doesn’t seem to need these tips (most of the time anyway). He actually gave me the most memorable Christmas gift ever a year or so ago. He surprised me with a room overlooking the Fire Olympics. So while everyone was stuck in traffic along Roxas Boulevard. We were happily sipping wine on the Balcony of a hotel with our feet up watching the beautiful fireworks. It was wonderful. Ruy of course didn’t start out that way, he was also hopeless at the start of our relationship and it took around 4 months before he started becoming extremely sweet.
Ruy had the liberty of time as we were already a couple. Some men unfortunately don’t have much time and are therefore turning to websites which offers short courses. I was really shocked when I saw this. Wow…there’s really a whole industry revolving around this problem. I wonder if there are such courses for clueless women? Wait…is there such a thing as a clueless woman? Of course not!!
P.S. Hey guys, I’m really really curious about your stories on Clueless men…I bet they’d be very funny. Please write about it on your blog then leave a message her so I can jump to your blogs. =)
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