The One

The One

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,

who calls you back when you hang up on him,

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.

Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead,

who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats,

who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, “…that’s her.” -anonymous

I read this somewhere, it’s very interesting but I don’t think I agree with it. First of all, I want a guy who would call me beautiful AND hot! Not one or the other but both…hehehe.  I also don’t want a guy who would stay awake to watch me sleep. I want a guy who would sleep when I’m sleeping so he can wake up and spend time actually doing stuff with me.

I don’t want a guy who kisses me on the forehead…that’s my freaking grandfather. I want a guy who kisses me….mmmm….everywhere! I don’t want a guy who shows me off when I’m in sweats…I don’t want to be seen when I’m in sweats. Tell me if you want to show me and I’ll fix myself up so I’ll be worthy of being seen.

I think the poem is sweet, but it doesn’t cover the important stuff. Like look for the guy who can provide for you. Who can give you a life you are worthy of. Look for a guy who wouldn’t beat you up. Look for a guy who wouldn’t cheat on you. Look for a guy who knows the value of family. Look for a guy who respects your family.

Hmmm…I’m looking at this and I’m realizing I should keep these shoulds and give it to Andrea when she grows up…hehehe