December 2, 2005

This has been the hardest decision ever. Ruy has already allowed me to have an eternity wedding band, but somehow I’m not satisfied with it yet. I went online to try to find some rings that are not so boring.

I am toying with the idea of putting colored stones on my wedding band. So far, none of the wedding bands appeal to me, I wonder if there is a superstition against this? I’m not really superstitious but I’d rather not take chances on my marriage.

Here are other designs that slightly interest me, but honestly nothing excites me. Also, is it important that Ruy and I have the same design?

Oh my God, this is it, the one year mark. Finally people will stop telling me “You’re preparing too early” or “Tagal pa yan, mashado ka namang excited!”.

One year for me is a very short time, after all just a year ago Ruy and I were still fighting about this wedding. I also wasn’t officially engaged, I didn’t have my engagement ring, we had a different wedding date and we weren’t sure about the church.

Now, 365 days after, everything is set and final. It will be in the church Ruy always wanted, on the date I chose.

There are things we still need to accomplish a.s.a.p.

– We need to organize the pamamanhikan soon.
– Ruy needs to be confirmed
– File leaves